Hi, other than keeping a strong front and strategizing how to get her run back to you, I think you should use this time to reassess if it's really what you want and save both yourselves the trouble if you just want a relationship and not the person in question. 🙂
]]>Thank you for your comment, Amanda! It's feedback like yours that remind me why I write because normally I get shy in posting personal things (thinking other people might feel it's about them, etc). So, yay! I'm glad you're hanging on and staying strong! Know that you deserve the best possible love and that the best is yet to come 🙂
]]>You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You're only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don't ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her. I didnt learn this until i went to http://bit.ly/1GmqBhL I thought it was bs at first but as time went on it starting working. I got back with my ex a few weeks later and things been pretty good ever since.