“Simply put, we didn’t want it. The drama, the baggage, the risks, the relationship. Or sometimes, we didn’t want it enough. I didn’t want you enough. You didn’t want me enough. No amount of compatibility is going to negate that. Because the thing about will is, choices are done freely. You can’t will yourself something you don’t want; that would be\u00a0forcing\u00a0yourself. Love is an act of will, not force.”<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\nAnd so I find myself here, in this final act of will. My heart is at peace as I tell you this: I wish you all the best this life can give.<\/strong><\/span>\u00a0Success, wealth, good health, happiness and someone you can share all of life’s goodness with –\u00a0a partner, a complement, a match. It’s not me but there will be someone out there for you. And I am sure you will find her, the same way that I am sure I will find him. I pray you don’t lose hope because you of all people are deserving of that great love. Stop shortchanging yourself because you say it’s your karma, that you’ve made your bed and you now must lie in it, because you, my dear, have already righted your wrongs to the universe a long time ago when you were with me. We’re all out to find each other’s persons, don’t waste the heartache we endured by falling into the same patterns because of fear or impatience. You are an amazing person and one day, not only will someone out there recognize your brilliance straight away, she will make you shine brighter than ever. And cheesy as it is, just the fact that you two are together will make the world a somewhat better place.<\/p>\nThis letter is to celebrate those hopes and dreams. A personal tribute to the people we chose over each other, even if things have been going okay for us and we weren’t even sure, me especially, that such ideals could be real. People who will make us forget that the should’ves, would’ves, could’ves ever existed. People who will make sense of the confusion, God’s plan, and whatever way you want to describe the here and now. Those two people we’ve let each other go to become available for. Those someones who will want this\/you\/me with an equally matched intensity. You will find her, L. My heart is hopeful that you will find true love and genuine happiness. My heart is certain that we’d, in time, find each other’s happiest.<\/p>\n
Love,
\nMe<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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